How to be a Winner in Life

Winner.sg

Winner Says	Loser Says
I have not made myself clear	You misunderstood me
I have made a mistake and I will correct it	It was not my fault
We seem to have different opinions on this matter	I am not going to change my mind
I am OK, but I can always do better	I am not as bad as many
Let me explain it in another way	As I have said repeatedly
You are never too old to learn new tricks	Do you realise how many years' of experience I have in this business?
I don't like the way you are doing things	Don't be stupid, you are being silly
It would be better if you do not do that	You are naughty

A Winner:	A Loser:
Changes own behaviour	Tries to change the behaviour of others
Works harder and still has time	Is always too busy to do what is necessary
Knows when to make a stand and when to give way	Gives in when a firm stand is called for and fights for the unimportant
Has respect for the ability of others and is always willing to learn from them	Is unwilling to recongnise abilities in others; concentrates on others weaknesses
Uses time to improvise	Uses time to avoid criticism
Emphasizes on possibilites	Emphasize problems
Accept other peoples' differences	Does not accept other peoples' right to be different
Talks positively	Talks negatively